I am very excited to announce yet another new branch of our conscious living center– Kids!
I’m often asked why one would one would choose a yoga retreat for holiday trip. There are many reasons to choose a yoga retreat. I have always been a traveler. While travel is always interesting and rewarding, sometimes it’s not very relaxing! A yoga holiday enables a person to take time out from their everyday stresses. It offers the opportunity to spend time on reconnecting with yourself. Adventurous excursions like touring The Coliseum are certainly wonderful, but quieting mind while connecting with your body can be life-changing—especially against a picturesque landscape.
Why and Where
When its time to take a holiday for me, I’m typically already burnt out! A yoga vacation is an ideal way to relax and reboot. It is a great time to change some bad habits both externally and internally, and get both your body and mind back on track.
As a retreat host, I am sure to pick a beautiful location in regions you might not think to travel on your own. There is no better place to heal than in the deep embrace of mother nature. That’s why I tend to pick beautiful locations slightly off the beaten path.
What to look for
During your retreat there should be opportunities to enjoy a wide range of holistic treatments which foster rejuvenation and your physical and mental well-being.
There are fun day excursions offered. Using our upcoming Tuscany retreat as an example, we will be offering not only meditation—but also a cooking classes and trips to the local museums ! There are always myriad fun things to do such as zip lining, hiking, and even thermal baths! Of course, you can also simply choose to relax with a good book. It depends on your heart’s desire.
Who will be there
Another great plus to these exotic transformations is that you can go alone. It’s a great opportunity to meet like-minded people. In my experience, many people come solo in the hopes of making new friends.
Which retreat is right for me
Not all yoga retreats are created equal. You should do a little investigating to be sure you are picking the right one for you. Some retreats will focus on the physical body, while others are aimed at transforming your mental and spiritual well-being. Some hosts promote a vegetarian diet, or maybe refrain from alcohol—while other retreats are a week-long party with some yoga! All these experiences are wonderful, but it is important to pick the one that works for you. Don’t feel shy, ask the questions!
There are some logistical considerations you want to know as well.
Do you need a visa?
Will I be sharing a room—and with how many people?
What time does the day start and end?
Am I expected to participate in all of the activities?
Do you consider TV, internet, and AC necessities?
Can you get money easily from a bank or ATM?
What is included in the price (how many meals, transfers to an from hotel and if not what is the a cost, tips, what if any are the additional cost of the day trips, will there be a group dinner at the end and is there an additional cost for this)?
What is not included in a retreat package can add up quickly. Sometimes it’s better to pay a higher price upfront and not have the worry when you get there. Remember, you are on this trip to get zen. There is nothing like an unforeseen several-hundred dollars on your bill to make all that inner-calm disappear!
Stress is a major contributor to illness and overall poor wellbeing. Attending a well-designed yoga retreat offers techniques that you can take with you after the trip is over (and continue at home).
You will be asked to look inward and discover how you might have been driving your life off course. You will come away with brand new tools to put in back on track.
Often after you return home, you will be greeted with “wow you look great! You look ten years younger!”
These are just a few of my favorite reasons to choose a yoga vacation. The foundation of any good yoga retreat is rejuvenation of the body, mind, and soul—anything else is simply a fantastic added bonus!
In the last week I have been feeling really proud about being an American. This country that I have felt out of place in, somehow has swung around and began speaking my language—the language of Love and Acceptance.
It is my first mother’s day! I can hardly believe it. Its been an amazing 8 months. If there was any one thing I have learned in these months, it is how much of my mother lives inside me. I have spent a good many years trying NOT to be like her, for one reason or another. Lets just say, she and I did not have an easy ride.
Being Otto’s mother has helped me to see her in a much different light. Life just never stops offering us unexpected ways to grow. I feel all the love she filled me with coming through me to my son. Things she made, silly things she would say or songs she would sing I now give to Otto. I somehow have kept all of the good and seem to better understand the hard parts. The job of a mother is often hard and quite scary. We are always trying to do your best with so much on the job learning. These days I see and feel her struggle from a much different seat.
I’d like to share that on this mother’s day I feel only deep love and gratitude for my mother. Thank you, Otto, for teaching me how to love my mother. Thank you, Mae Tursi, you are loved and terribly missed.
I don’t know about you but this winter has kicked my butt! Though my son, Otto, brought a great deal of sunshine, he also added to the fatigue. Although winter can feel long, at least I can get a lot done. There are books to be read, projects to complete but when it lingers as long and hard as this year I need a few helpful tools to get through.
I hope these suggestions help. If you have a few good ideas of your own please feel free to share them with us.
Hands down, the best way to beat the winter blues is by taking yourself to Costa Rica!! Join Paula as she leads her annual Spiritual Awakening Retreat this March at the beautiful and serene Anamaya Resort in Montezuma, Costa Rica.
Why do these damn resolutions never work?! I think it’s because they start with our glass half-full. Our thoughts start out with “I don’t have something–and how will I ever get it I get it?” Perhaps that’s followed with the thought “I’m don’t deserve it” or “I can’t ever have that anyway.” I devised a plan for 2015 to turn this around and it starts with filling the glass with love.
Often we struggle with who we are. We turn against our own nature. The thing is if there is one truth in the world it is our consistent nature. On a certain level we are who we are and it isn’t changing. We can mellow or shift but if you’re a leader, you’re always going to feel a little out of place following. So why not just own it? The amazing thing is, when you accept who you are, you begin to realize how beneficial it is, and then use it to your advantage. Let me offer an example.
During our Urban Silent Retreat at Reflections this January I spoke about a person who wanted adventure in her life.This is how it went:
A person wants more adventure in her life. She is starting with a lack “I don’t have adventure and I want it.”
The question is “What stops her from getting it?” What stops anyone from change? FEAR. “I would love to climb that big mountain but I’m afraid.” Perhaps the fear is around getting hurt, or lost, or a host of other possible outcomes. Often the next thought is an attack against one’s own nature: I will never be adventurous, I’m just a chicken! When we attack who we are I call that the INVERTED YOU. The you that hasn’t realized the greatness that you are. What if what you really are is prudent, not chicken. Maybe you are a person who needs the details to feel safe? The truth is I’d rather climb the mountain with that person than the person who always forgets the map (that would be me)!
So far we have two steps to this “use self love to change” story
- Face your fear. “I’m afraid of getting hurt.”
- Discover a love of your nature. “I want adventure but my nature is prudent. I’m not chicken, just careful.”
Knowing that there are things you “are” that will never change, like your height or your prudent self, how do you get up that damn mountain? Again, you must first discover the beauty of your nature and then you can use it. I’m fairly certain there will be no chance of real change without real love. Once you can see that holding back and not barreling up the mountain isn’t a bad thing then you can invite real change in the door. Here comes step three.
Since you can’t change your blueprint or your inside world then what is left? What you can change is your outside world. If you want adventure, then I hang around with the adventurous, not the dude taking photos from the lookout point or the people pulling up on the tour bus. Make adventure part of your outer world and soon enough it will be just what you do. You will start to walk the walk and talk the talk in your own way – according to your special nature. You will be the prudent adventurist! Who knows, you might even get picked to lead everyone up the mountain because you have the best safety protocol!